How to avoid a heartbreak
A common saying tells us “better safe than sorry”. And in some cases it might be a smart decision to take wise proverbs into account. But you also have to learn in life and not every experience has to be positive. Most of the time you learn more out of the bad instead of the good situations. And when you never take any risk, life might get really boring.
The only advise we can give you is that it’s truly important to get to know yourself first. How will you ever know if another person is a match when you have no idea who you are? And by getting to know we mean you have to dig deep. What do you want, what do you like and dislike, what are your strengths and weaknesses? Don’t forget to answer honestly, you won’t get any further by lying to yourself.
When you’re a very sensitive individual and the other doesn’t get those kind of emotions, having a healthy relationship will become tough in the long run. Even though you have the same taste in music, movies and the sex is great. You will feel terribly misunderstood after a while. Being a great couple is like a puzzle, there are quite a few pieces that need to match. And if you don’t know what type of person you essentially are, how will you ever find out who will truly complete you? And if you don’t know in which direction you want to go in life, how to build a future together?
So if you know from the start who you are and what you want, it will become easier to make choices concerning your love life. You might avoid setting all your chances on a long-term relationship with that hot guy or cute girl you’re pathologically in love with. Sometimes you just need to manage the expectations and let a fling be a fling before you have to go through the stages of a heartbreak all over again.